Be Proactive to get school and medical information about your children.

In my law practice, I see separated or divorced parents who wait for the other parent to give them information about the child.  This is not a good idea, especially if that parent is trying to alienate the child from you.  Go to the school and meet the teachers.  Find out about all the activities from the source, not the other parent.  It is the law in Oklahoma that you are entitled to the school records and medical records of your child.  If you have a problem getting access directly from the provider contact the office for more information.